Acoa and dating
I think the booze is often more of a self medication strategy then the cause of the illness itself.
Loyal, she could go through fire and water to be together. She might be cool, she might be feminine, but that's a LONG laundry list of red flags my friend.
You’ve poured your heart out to me and I have been humbled and honored to hear your stories of pain, reconciliation, triumph.
Many of you have asked for a companion article that offers some advice for those who love an ACo A (Adult Child of an Alcoholic). If you are one of the many people who asked for this article, you’re already on the path to love and understanding, and miles ahead of those who aren’t attuned to their partner's needs. I won’t necessarily believe what you say to me — even “I love you” may be cause for question.
This sounds almost exactly like a woman I dated when I was 23 and she was 22. Odds are she won't see the humor in songs like "The Piano Has Been Drinking." Yeah difficult for sure but once you can deal with that kind of a woman then you can deal with them all.
A couple of months ago I wrote about being the child of an addict.