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Learn to recognise and deal with jealousy The word ‘jealousy’ describes a mixed bag of horrible feelings, including: Usually this feels so bad, we’ll do anything we can to avoid it.
But you can’t force someone to accept, and be happy about, something they really don’t like.
And if you've got the kind of girl who reeeeeally isn't looking for exclusivity, she doesn't want you barfing your gross emotion germs all over her. I'm pretty sure that the bat and the pig that combined viruses to make The Contagion met on e Harmony and that I've had sex with them both.
Done responsibly, dating a lot of women is no longer considered outré.
"Sophie used to go with one boy Friday, another Saturday, and another on Monday."My sister and I exchanged looks. (Although, I guess she broke for Sunday, so there was that.)I don't know if it's because of Cameron Crowe movies or disease panic or protracted adolescence, but my generation believed that when you really liked somebody, you should like them solely and exclusively, even obsessively. I know guys who date multiple women like they're filling out an elimination bracket, and I know guys who date multiple women because they get easily bored by one set of nipples.
If a guy gave you a mix CD of Radiohead songs because it felt like giving you "a pint of his own blood," and then he gave girl a pint of his own blood, it sort of cheapens the gesture. More and more people I know prefer dating a bunch of people to one; you can be suspended in a kind of single-but-not animation that used to be reserved for old bachelors of indeterminate sexual orientation, and not be considered a jerky health risk.