Tiny girl sex
The movie date would escalate, and we'd begin kissing our respective pillow boyfriends, and then finally dry-humping them.It was a crude simulation of what we were piecing together about sexuality, and we were most certainly not molesting each other by virtue of having a sexual exploration in the same room.What a silly little boy child just trying to figure things out in this crazy old world!Even when it comes to being a teen masturbating in the same room as someone else, boys are given a free pass.It means that they've found a comfortable place from which to try out some of the things they've heard about adults doing. Growing up, I had many purely science based encounters with girl friends: what do your boobs look like? Boys, or should I say, straight boys, are allowed to flourish sexually from whenever they begin noticing their penis gets hard from time-to-time, which basically means their whole lives. We teach little girls that their sex is shameful, we teach them to hide it, so that when one of them does come out and say "I experimented, I was curious, I masturbated" we can burn her at the stake.Girls, on the other hand, are taught, whether overtly or by passive societal conventions, that there's something inherently wrong with being sexually aware. Acting out sex with other props is art of a normal process not only for sexual discovery but for children interacting with the complex notions swirling around them on a daily basis.I used to huddle with my girlfriends in the library and we'd read passages from the "naughty" parts of YA novels or look at pictures of genitals in medical books.
The intense and hateful puritanism that Lena Dunham has become victim of simply because she was curious about vaginas, and as an innocent child, no less, is disgusting.Most little girls aren't taught that's it's OK to touch yourself (where as masturbation, touching and looking are all part of a male's sexual lexicon from a very young age, whether through socializing or the media), so we take our shame and we hide it in other vaginas. When I was about 10 years old, my friend and I would play a game called "boyfriends" where we would each have a pillow for a boyfriend."Boyfriends" would begin with a "movie date" where we would pretend to go on a double date to the movies with our pillow boyfriends.Our frame of reference becomes our friends and our sisters.We start sharing and looking and sometimes poking and possibly giggling and maybe being grossed out maybe awestruck with fascination and definitely filled with a million more questions about what those bits are and how they work, and how the hell does the baby get in there and then get back out again?